Richard Crim
2 min readAug 25, 2022

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Well, some of what you are saying is reasonable but some of it's crap. About what I would expect from a younger guy who, and I'm guessing based only on this article, has never been married.

What I'm taking away from this article is that you want to have a sex life. You want to have sex on a regular basis with a partner(s) and you are tired of one night stands.

So, you are "dating" to find someone steady, I guess. Basically it sounds like you want a "fuck buddy" or buddies. So that when you feel like hanging out and getting laid, someone is available.

Pretty sweet deal if you can swing it. I once dated three women at the same time. That's pretty much how it went. However, it's exhausting and if they find out about it they will dump your ass. Putting you back at square one.

Let's be honest, unless you are a "pussy hound" constantly looking for variety, dating sucks. It's expensive, time consuming, stressful, and has a low success rate. Being good at dating should not be your endgame unless you are looking to get laid.

There is a great episode of "King of the Hill" that every lonely single guy should be made to watch. The boy asks Boomhauer how he gets so many women to sleep with him. So, Boomhauer shows him his secret.

Dating is a numbers game. If you ask a lot of women to go out with you, some will say yes.

That's the whole secret of dating. Having the balls and confidence to approach someone and ask them out. Then having a thick enough skin to shrug it off when 9 out of 10 say no.

Getting laid isn't that hard. Building a successful partnership with someone as a life project (marriage) is very hard. That's advice from a guy who has been married four times.

Lastly, the bit about "premium" men is just stupid. Everyone, men and women, want to fuck beautiful people. That top 20% of the bell curve who are "above average" in desirability. We all want them.

Unless you are one of them, in which case why are you reading this, you aren't likely to wind up in bed with one of them. The rest of us all settle for what's available to us and make the best of it.

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Richard Crim
Richard Crim

Written by Richard Crim

My entire life can be described in one sentence: Things didn’t go as planned, and I’m OK with that.

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