Men are not "evolving" that's for certain. When I was younger I really expected revolutionary changes in gender roles and the emergence of new gender possibilities in the way human beings related to each other.
I was a huge fan of Ian Banks and his "Culture" sci-fi novels. Partly because he imagined a future of complete choice in body identity. In a world where your physical form was discretionary, gender becomes irrelevant.
As I aged, I have had to adjust my desires to fit reality. I don't recall if you read it but I wrote this last year in response to something Jessica Wildflower wrote.
Perhaps we simply feel the dissatisfaction of still "being in the Wilderness". Perhaps a new paradigm is about to emerge.
Or perhaps not.
With age and deteriorating health I find I have become increasingly pessimistic about the future.
