I remember when this happened and how much you struggled with it. The heat of your pain still shines through your words.

In Judaism we light a Yahrzeit candle to mark a year of mourning. Put a stone on the grave of our loved one. And say the prayers of Mourning and Remembrance.

Hamakom y'nachem etchem b'toch sh'ar availai tziyon ee yerushalayim.”

May God comfort you among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.

May peace find your heart in the year to come and the warmth of your mothers memory bring you comfort for all the days of your life.